tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post3273323755505020542..comments2020-12-20T14:33:45.995-08:00Comments on HAM.BLOG: Time and Energy, Or Lack Thereofannahamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17386975896008644346noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-13974817614541801612009-03-30T22:28:00.000-07:002009-03-30T22:28:00.000-07:00wow. thank you so much for posting this. i've had ...wow. thank you so much for posting this. i've had this experience *so* much and it is so damn frustrating. i've never heard anyone online talk about it before.<BR/><BR/>i wrote about some of this issue <A HREF="http://www.shiveringnaked.org/?p=2048" REL="nofollow">here</A>.matthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00605298009892988399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-59318284178225944522009-03-30T14:45:00.000-07:002009-03-30T14:45:00.000-07:00see, look, i finally just read anna's posts. and g...see, look, i finally just read anna's posts. and glanced at liss's. and now i'm upset. but i feel like i can't participate in this discussion, because i know i'm not in on the whole conversation, i may not have all the background (esp considering liss didn't link to anna's posts that i saw) and so forth. so, my feeling is, i don't have a "right" to speak about this issue. <BR/><BR/>wth?amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00741559544508220186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-40292592756468745742009-03-30T14:33:00.000-07:002009-03-30T14:33:00.000-07:00You're still my bloggy friend. I miss you when you...You're still my bloggy friend. I miss you when you're absent. But I know *why.* <BR/><BR/>It bothers me that it seems one's participation is only valued -- or at least is valued much more -- when one has the time to be up and informed on current events and the current course of conversation. People who can keep up are much more likely to be heard. People who come along weeks later, or people who are there now but weren't there for whatever happened last week, tend to fall through the cracks. <BR/><BR/>And I don't really know how to fix that.amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00741559544508220186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-66834809320132840202009-03-29T07:31:00.000-07:002009-03-29T07:31:00.000-07:00I feel the same way sometimes.(LOL. The length of ...I feel the same way sometimes.<BR/><BR/>(LOL. The length of this comment sure fits the topic.)Tianahttp://amaranthinebattle.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-22857016587222313302009-03-28T16:53:00.000-07:002009-03-28T16:53:00.000-07:00There is no need to quit because someone suggests ...There is no need to quit because someone suggests it either. The mere notion of quitting is ridiculous. This is your space and if someone is trying that crap, eject them summarily from it. <BR/><BR/>You aren't alone, and posting sporadically is better than not posting at all. <BR/><BR/>Oh and I can think of plenty of white, male, able bodied, stereotypical guys who have blogs or net presence and never update. They just don't have a good reason for it and you do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15844414.post-59345151169886896852009-03-27T21:54:00.000-07:002009-03-27T21:54:00.000-07:00Well said.Some people are willing to spend all the...Well said.<BR/><BR/>Some people are willing to spend all their spoons doing some things, and others are not.<BR/><BR/>How you choose to spend yours is your business.<BR/><BR/>I think it is sad how right you are. Sometimes, though, if I wasn't housebound some days, I wouldn't find the time or energy to write at all. I fight through it some days b/c when I lie around doing nothing, my brain still goes full tilt. I have to get it out somehow. But for people who don't want or aren't able to expend that effort, I understand completely. It's like the shoe analogy you once told me.<BR/><BR/>No matter how often you update, I like reading your blog. I hope you find moments where you can continue to keep at it.ouyangdanhttp://randombabble.comnoreply@blogger.com